The Baby In Between

65 Days and Counting

2010-07-08T15:49:00.002+08:00

As I look at my calendar today, I begin to count the days before Daddy arrives this September. It'll be 65 days more, quite short now since I haven't fully prepared the house for the house warming and the things needed for the little boy's Christening and 1st birthday party. Whew, talking about pressure, pressure, pressure! But I'm not worried, I'm positive that everything will turn out okay before Daddy comes home.

So what's my first project this July? Hmmm I'm thinking about getting those kitchen cabinets and built-in cabinets done. I already talked to the maker and I basically agreed on the price. So, I'll get the ball rolling now before it's too late.

65 days to go! Aja Phoebe!

Palawan Here We Come!

2010-06-04T08:15:00.000+08:00

In a while, we're off to one of the most popular destinations here in the Philippines - and it's no other than Palawan. I'm so excited to see the Underground River - one of the new 7 wonders of the world. Also, I want to experience island hopping again and do some swimming and snorkeling. The last time I did this was when we were in Davao. That was almost 2 years ago, so I'm really excited for this trip.

How about you? Have you been to Palawan?

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2010-05-28T13:45:00.008+08:00

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Day 6 - Nutrimeal Challenge

2010-05-22T22:12:00.000+08:00

From Day 1- Day 6, here's the total no. of kilos that I lost - (drum roll please!!!) 2 KILOS. Yes, from 57 kilos, I now weigh 55 kilos. Not bad, huh! Imagine that's only 6 days. And when I checked my waistline today, from 32 inches, it is now 29 inches. As in, it's super amazing. So, I'm going to continue having Nutrimeal from now on. I still want to reach my goal of 50 kilos.

Day 5 - Nutrimeal Challenge

2010-05-21T14:05:00.000+08:00

Day 5 is here. And so what's new? Well, weight now is 55 1/2 kilos. Another 1/2 kilo lost there. Wow, this is really amazing! This is the fastest weight loss I've tried so far. How about you? Have you tried Nutrimeal too?

Day 4 - Nutrimeal Challenge

2010-05-20T18:02:00.000+08:00

I'm on my 4th day of the Nutrimeal Challenge and well when I checked my weight this afternoon, it's still the same 56 kilos. But not bad because I can already feel my pants getting a little loose, so that could mean something.

Am I starving? No, not at all. The Nutrimeal that I drink already makes me feel so full.

DAY 3 - Nutrimeal Challenge

2010-05-19T16:01:00.000+08:00

Sorry peeps, I'm in a hurry to leave the office so I'll do this post quick. For DAY 3 guess what? I lost 1 kilo!!! Yahooo! From 57 kilos, now it's 56...Amazing! Nutrimeal really works. I can't wait to reach my goal of 50 kilos. Whew! Gotta go for now.

DAY 2 - My Nutrimeal Challenge

2010-05-18T16:36:00.003+08:00

Hi everyone! It's DAY 2 of my Nutrimeal Challenge! And how am I doing so far? I'm dying! Hahaha :D just kidding! I'm actually doing great, although yesterday was really a struggle.

For a person who is fond of eating like me, eating no rice at all since yesterday is really a big challenge. Last night, I was even telling my husband that I'm going to quit already. But at the back of my mind, something was telling me not to. So I continued with only Nutrimeal and fruits.

And know what, I just finished eating a piece of Ponkan for snacks and I felt full already. At 5pm, I'm going to take another serving of Nutrimeal for dinner. Woohoo - way to go Phoebe! And I bought 3 apples to help me get by. And oh by the way, I ate veggies too this lunch time. I'm really positive that this product will work. Whew! 4 days more to go!

DAY 1 - My Nutrimeal Weight Loss Challenge Starts Now!

2010-05-17T11:02:00.004+08:00

Yes, after a month of contemplating whether or not to try this newest weight loss craze in the office, I've finally started it this morning - the Nutrimeal Weight Loss Challenge. Nutrimeal is a product from USANA which is composed of the following health basics: 8 grams of dietary fiber, 15 grams of protein, low in saturated fat, and low glycemic.

So, what's the difference of this product? Here, read on this info:

Nutrimeal Difference

* Wild Strawberry Free of artificial flavors and sweeteners
* Dutch Chocolate Nutrimeal uses only natural flavors and sweeteners

Wild Strawberry and Dutch Chocolate Nutrimeal

Fast food or no food. Too often this is a choice we’re forced to make. We know you want exceptional nutrition in everything you eat. We also know that you are incredibly busy. Between work, exercise, and a list of errands a mile long, the last thing you want to do in the morning before you run out the door is cook breakfast! But breakfast is where a healthy lifestyle begins! That’s why USANA developed tasty and convenient Nutrimeal™ shakes.

They are low glycemic meaning that the ingredients are formulated to produce only small fluctuations in blood glucose levels for sustained energy to keep you satisfied longer. Each serving of Nutrimeal contains 8 grams of dietary fiber, which can help maintain a healthy heart and circulatory system.

Each serving also provides 15 grams of soy, whey, and other proteins. Soy helps maintain cardiovascular health, diastolic blood pressure, and HDL-cholesterol levels, provided they are healthy to begin with. Soy protein is a complete protein, containing all of the essential amino acids in optimal ratios and in a highly digestible form. Whey protein, which is also easily digestible, is an excellent source of amino acids essential for building a healthy body.

Try the sweet flavor of Wild Strawberry Nutrimeal for breakfast, or any time you want a healthy meal you shake!

I am really so excited to see the result of this product. I want to be like our boss, Josephine (See her pic below). She tried using the product for 1 week and noticed a big loss of 12lbs from her 120lbs weight. No work out, no dieting, no skipping of meals, no diet pills, no lipo, just Nutrimeal. :) This is true and 100% effective.

I want to experience it myself so my nutrimeal challenge starts now! From my weight of 57 kilos and 32 inches waistline, let's see where these will go. :D

Glad to be a Part of the 1st Automated Election

2010-05-11T15:03:00.002+08:00

Yesterday, I became a part of the 1st ever automated election here in the Philippines. Although the long queue was a bit frustrating, it was all worth it because I was able to exercise my right as a citizen of this country. But just like what the others experienced, the 3 1/2 hours of waiting was no fun and was really unexpected. The COMELEC should have done a little information dissemination about the clustered precincts so that voters were not surprised when they arrived in their respective polling places. But anyway, it's the 1st time, so hopefully the next time around will be a lot better.

Really I feel glad that I registered as a voter. At least, when the babies in between get older, I can proudly tell them that Mommy was able to experience voting during the 1st automated election.

Happy Mother's Day!

2010-05-09T08:11:00.000+08:00

To all the proud mommies like me, allow me to greet each and every one of you a:

I Feel Great with USANA Essentials

2010-05-08T15:20:00.005+08:00

When I woke up this morning, I knew in an instant that this was going to be a good day. And indeed it was. Although my day hasn't ended yet, I feel great knowing that God continue to bless me with good health. And I am extremely grateful for the new nutritional supplements that I'm taking now - the USANA Essentials. I feel really active the whole day and hardly feel any stress. And you know what's more amazing about this product? It's so effective at regulating my sleeping cycle and my bowel movement. Last night, I thought I wouldn't get any good sleep because it was really hot inside my friend's place. But to my surprise, I did. And when I get up in the morning, there's the restroom waiting for me to move my bowel. Really it's good that I can now do this daily. When I wasn't taking Essentials, I moved my bowel only after 3-5 days, and believe me, it didn't feel good. I felt so bloated and heavy inside and could hardly eat. But now that I'm taking Essentials, everything has changed. I feel great!

So if you're also having a hard time moving your bowel and getting a good night sleep, why not read more about USANA Essentials?

Happy Thoughts, Good Feelings

2010-05-07T14:16:00.005+08:00

There are lots of things that make me feel good - one of which is when I see the babies in between smiling. It might be a small thing for some but for a full-time working mom like me, just seeing my little kids happy are more than enough to complete my day. And so since I won't be going home today, I'd just remember their happy faces to eliminate the negative thoughts and feelings that I have right now. After all, the reason why I'm working so hard is because of them. So no more entertaining of negative thoughts and feelings, only happy thoughts and good feelings. :D

I love you so much Guian and Gihan. You are Mommy's precious little ones!

(Baby Gihan)

(Ate Guian)

A Journey to a Healthy Me

2010-05-06T15:24:00.002+08:00

Oh I miss blogging so much! I know a lot of my readers here are wondering where I've been these past months. Well, to tell you honestly, I wasn't anywhere. All this time, I was here in the same old desk, doing my everyday task as a full-time employee. I really did not intend to forget this blog, it's just that my health was deteriorating so I had to set aside some usual things that I do like maintaining this blog.

So why a journey to a healthy me? It's because from this day on I want to shout to the world that "I am going to be healthy and that this hypertension will not get the best out of me!" Yes, believe it or not, at the age of 29, I was diagnosed with Hypertension stage 2. It all started with the feeling of nausea and vomiting and a different throb at the back of my neck. And when I asked our company nurse what could be the problem, she immediately took my blood pressure, and there was the shocking truth - a blood pressure of 140/110.

When I consulted a cardiologist about my condition, she confirmed that I was hypertensive and will continue to be if my cholesterol level will not go down. So she advised me not to eat too much meat, salty foods, sweets, and more. Also she told me to change my lifestyle, at least to have exercises, and have enough sleep everyday.

I no longer eat a lot of fatty foods but I do take 30 mins. to 1 hour walk everyday. And as far as sleep is concerned, I make it a habit now to sleep at least 6-8 hours a day. But in spite of these all, I felt something was missing. So when a friend of mine recommended a nutritional supplement called Essentials, I got curious in an instant.

Essentials is a product of USANA, one of America’s leading companies in the field of health and nutrition. Actually, USANA is operating for almost 18 years now, and in 14 countries including Philippines. Essentials is a vitamin & mineral supplement for adults which is a combination of two products: Mega Antioxidant™ and Chelated Mineral™. Together, they provide a broad spectrum of vitamins, minerals, and other plant nutrients that form the foundation of USANA’s nutritional system. They also have the advantage of USANA’s patented Olivol™ olive fruit extract that provides the nutritional benefits of the Mediterranean diet. And if I am to compare these products with other vitamins around like Centrum and Kirkland, USANA's Essentials are way more reliable because they have higher absorption rate.

Need I say more about Essentials and USANA? Well yeah, I'd definitely talk more about them here as I start this journey to a healthy me. It's really high time that I take really care of my health now. Being hypertensive at the age of 29 is not fun and is no joke. So with USANA here with me, I'm sure gonna beat this thing!

A Movie Review: Avatar

2010-02-02T14:20:00.003+08:00

Last week, while having our usual breakfast, I found myself so out of place when my friends talked about the movie Avatar. Yes, I was OP simply because I was the only one in the group who haven't watched it. So, last Friday, before going home, I decided to get a clear DVD copy of the said movie and scheduled a movie marathon Sunday with the kids.

When Sunday came, the kids were more excited than I am to watch Avatar. I even recalled Baby Gab saying, "Momo..Mommy Momo.."(which means, Mommy monster) while looking at the Avatar DVD cover. She's a little scared of that blue creature in the movie called the Na'vi.

Anyway, moving on, when the movie started, I couldn't really focus because the kids were constantly bugging me. Good thing the DVD copy that I got had a subtitle so I was able to catch up. Honestly, at first, I was having a hard time understanding what the movie was about. But as the story went on, I got the clear picture.

I don't want to elaborate here my view on each aspect of the movie. But overall, I'm not really that satisfied, it seemed like I expected too much from it. Well, the special effects are excellent, but the story...It was so predictable. It does not even exceed my liking for Titanic and The Lord of the Rings Trilogy. If asked which movie I'll watch again, my answer would definitely be The Lord of the Rings, especially The Return of the King.

Image source: wikipedia.org

Charter On Demand - Starting the Month Right

2010-02-01T11:13:00.007+08:00

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My kids love watching cartoons and I love watching sci-fi movies. In the morning, the kids make sure that they remember the schedule when their favorite cartoons will be played on TV. While myself, I either download one from the Internet, wait for the movie to have a DVD release, or settle on what the TV has to offer. The kids don't really mind watching on schedule, but me, I'm not that patient. So, I'm really glad that there's now Charter digital. Because if there's Charter digital, On Demand is also free to access.

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Look At Her Now

2010-01-31T20:02:00.006+08:00

I know, it's been so long since I last put a picture of the baby in between here. So, I decided to include some in this post. She's changed a lot. Actually, I was thinking of changing the title of my blog now to The Toddler in Between :D Lol.

My Baby Gab is now 2 years old. She talks a lot. Plays a lot. And she loves her baby brother so much. Anyway, without further ado, here, better look at her now.

(she's all smiles)

(Gab's version of Korean pose and upong-dalaga)

(the babies in between)

(Gaby and me)

Looking Forward to a Saturday BondingTime with the Kids

2010-01-30T15:25:00.002+08:00

Yes, it's 30 minutes more and I'm outta here. It was a long week, and I can hardly wait to spend a Saturday afternoon bonding time with my kiddos. I was not mistaken when I told my new househelp last December that it will be a month before the kids and I can go out again. It's actually more than a month because I said that around December 20.

I'm really looking forward to going out with the kids again. Though I don't have a hefty budget for today, I'll just make sure that the kids will be able to eat at least in Jollibee and play some of the rides in Festival Mall.

Anyway, got to go for now. Bye!

Done

2010-01-29T19:48:00.003+08:00

Yes, I'm finally done with my son's birth registration! Imagine, he's already 4 months old but I got the original copy of his birth certificate just now. Whew! Thanks to the ever helpful records section of Binan Doctors Hospital.*sarcasm* They took so much care in handling my son's birth certificate, in spite the fact that there was an indication there that his dad is an OFW.

I don't want to talk in details, though, how it happened that I got my son's birth certificate just now. All I know is that, I'm so glad that I'm done with it. Whenever I recall the stress that I've been through just to process this one, oh well, I can't help but utter the words, I'll never give birth in that hospital again. No offense to my OB-gyne, she's one of the best. I have nothing against her because she really took care of me. But to the one who processed my son's birth certificate..oh never mind, I don't want to waste my time again on you.

So that's it! I'm done.

Daddy? Werk?

2010-01-28T11:39:00.002+08:00

Yes, the little baby in between is starting to ask. The other night, when we were about to sleep, I was surprised to hear my little girl say, "Daddy? Werk?" I knew, she meant if daddy was at "work".

I said, "Yes baby." I guess, she asked because the laptop was off, and that Daddy was not on webcam. Ever since our little girl was born, her Daddy is always there for her even through webcam. That's actually how she grew up knowing her dad, that he'll always be away, on webcam, on voice chat, at work.

I couldn't blame Daddy. But sometimes, I would wish...that he's always here with us. That he's not working in another country, that he does not have to leave again, that he'll see in person how our little girl and little boy grow.

I know, what my little girl asked the other night, will be asked again in the coming nights.

Daddy? Werk?

And I won't grow tired answering, "Yes baby."

Reviving This Family Blog

2010-01-27T15:18:00.003+08:00

After months of contemplating whether to give up this blog or not, I finally arrived to one decision - and that is to keep it. Yes, my schedule's a bit crazy these past months, considering the fact that I don't just have a toddler and a 4-month old baby to look after but also a full-time job to focus on. But blogging has been a part of my system already, and I don't think giving it up will make my life a little easier.

The Baby in Between is not just a simple family blog for me, putting all my thoughts about our family into writing and documenting my child's development. It's far beyond that - it's actually a symbol of hope - that this family, our family, will continue to be complete no matter how difficult the trials are. If I give up this now, it's just like I'm giving up important memories of our family together.

So, here I am once again, reviving this family blog for the *nth time. (Yeah, I can't remember how many times I tried to revive this already! :D ) I won't promise that I'll update this everyday, but I'll do make sure that I make a post at least twice a week.

It's Gonna Make Sense

2009-11-11T13:44:00.002+08:00

I so love this song from Michael Learns to Rock. I play it over and over in iTunes. Here let me share its lyrics:

Life comes in many shapes
You think you know what you got
until it changes

And life will take you high and low
you gotta learn how to walk
and then which way to go

Every choice you make
when you're lost
Every step you take
has it's cause

[Chorus:]
After you clear your eyes
you'll see the light
somewhere in the darkness
After the rain has gone
you'll feel the sun comes
and though it seems your sorrow never ends
someday its gonna make sense

Tears you shed are all the same
when you laughed 'till you cried
or broken down in pain

All the hours you have spent in the past
worrying about
a thing that didn't last

Everything you saw
played a part
in everything you are
in your heart

[Chorus:]
After you clear your eyes
you'll see the light
somewhere in the darkness
After the rain has gone
you'll feel the sun comes
and though it seems your sorrow never ends
someday its gonna make sense

I know, someday its gonna make sense. Everything is so vague right now. I'm even thinking about letting go of this blog for good. Maybe when it already makes sense why all these are happening, I will.

My Little Fairy Princess and My Little Wicked Witch

2009-10-29T11:28:00.000+08:00

Last Sunday, my daughters were given a chance to join the Halloween Party in our subdivision. Although I was a little hesitant at first because I don't have ready costumes for my two girls, I've decided to let them join because I want them to socialize with the other kids in our new neighborhood. The two were so excited; it was actually their first time to join a Halloween Costume Party. For Gab, I've chosen a fairy princess costume while for Yana, it was a wicked witch one. Yana was so unhappy about it because she wanted to be a fairy princess too. Unfortunately, there was only one piece left, so no choice indeed.

Anyway, here's a photo of Baby Gab as a fairy princess.

I'm So Glad to be Back!

2009-10-27T15:43:00.002+08:00

After two months of working from home and one month from being on maternity leave, I'm finally back to work here at the office. I so missed my desk and my PC that I hardly noticed that it's almost 4pm. Whew! I'm stressed. But I'm glad to be back. The 2-month bedrest and work-from-home and the 1-month maternity leave were no fun at all. So, I'm so so happy that I'm back to my normal life again.

I still have lots of stuff to tell you, but then I have to bid bye-bye for now. See you again tomorrow!

Baby Gihan Turns 1 Month Old

2009-10-25T18:53:00.003+08:00

Yup, he's one month old now. See how time flies. It was just like yesterday when I was still in labor and tried so hard to push him out of me. And guess what? He now weighs 3.6 kilos, 1.3 kilos more from his birth weight of 2.3 kilos. Of course, we're all so happy about this progress, myself particularly. He doesn't look premature anymore and he's no longer suffering from UTI.

Really I'm so thankful that in spite of giving birth early, me and my baby boy were able to manage well. See, I'm even planning to go back to work by Tuesday, just a month of maternity leave at that.

Anyway, let me share to you my baby's pics at 1 month.

I Survived...We Survived Part I

2009-10-23T14:45:00.000+08:00

This post is all about my labor and giving birth experience to the new baby in between. Why it's entitled "I Survived..We Survived"? You'll find out as you read along.

September 24, 2009 - It was a typical day, supposedly. I was still on bedrest but working from home at the same time. The night after, I was already complaining that I was feeling different, on which as if I was on labor. I even texted my friend Lyn about it. My stomach was contracting but the pain was not at close intervals so I thought it was false labor again. We didn't have water and electricity during that day, so that really stressed me out. In the afternoon, again I started feeling contractions. But I ignored them. When the water went back, I immediately told Gab that we will take a bath together. But even before I reached the bathroom, I felt a sudden gush of wetness. At first, I thought it was my water bag. But it wasn't. It was blood and it was flowing through my legs.

I tried so hard not to panic. But I'd admit, I was so scared. Scared about the thought that it was time, that baby was only 36weeks, and that it was just me, the nanny, and the two kids here. I still managed to take a bath and was thinking hard how to go about everything - the kids, me, the nanny, the finances, yet the thought of the impending labor pain came last. After taking a bath, first things first - I called my neighbor who has a tricycle to bring me to the hospital. But before we proceed, I first informed my friends Lyn and Nays and my boss Mel that I'll be giving birth in hours time, and then left the two kids to our very kind neighbor.

At the hospital, the typical procedure was done. Filled up the necessary forms and paid a deposit. After which, the nurse instructed me to lie down so she can conduct an internal exam. I was already 2 cm dilated. A few minutes later, my OB - Dra. Mia Almeda of Binan Doctors Hospital, arrived and conducted another IE. Just the same, it was 2cm; but since I was already bleeding heavily, she told me that I'd be admitted already.

Excitement. Fear. Anxiety. Relief. I felt mixed emotions when the nurse walked me through the labor room. Excited because in just hours time, I'll be seeing my baby already. Scared because my baby hasn't reached full term yet. Anxious because my two girls were left at the care of my neighbor. And relieved because the time has finally come. But in spite of these mixed feelings, all in all, I was ready - ready to go through the labor pain and ready to push the baby out.

I Need Help with Used Cars

2009-10-03T08:15:00.003+08:00

With the newest addition to the family, I realized that having our own car is not anymore a luxury but more of a necessity. Why? Because with the distance of our home from major establishments and with the number of kids that we have now, not to mention the two new house help that will be arriving soon, all the more that we need a car to make commuting more convenient for us. So now I'm looking at some used cars to buy. Actually, last year, Daddy and I already reserved one. But then after a month, we changed our mind and decided to refund our money. So, I'm back to zero when it comes to searching for used cars. If only I'm in the UK, everything would be easier for me. There's www.BuyYourCar.co.uk to help consumers like me. It's a car portal that allows anyone to search and compare prices of new and used cars. Really helpful especially for first time buyers like me.

Can't Breast Feed

2009-10-03T07:47:00.002+08:00

It's so frustrating that I can't breast feed my newborn baby. I tried since Sunday when we got home, but the baby just won't latch on my breast. The reason: because of my flat and inverted nipple. Aaarrgghh. It's so frustrating. I already made a research to find a remedy but it didn't work for me. So, my last resort is to pump my milk using a breast pump. Quite painful, but it's enough to give me relief and for baby to be able to get even a small amount of breast milk.

As of now, I don't have a choice but to do infant formula feeding. Costly, I know. But what can I do. I can't leave baby feeling hungry just because I can't breastfeed. I really envy those who can breastfeed their young. Because after all, breastmilk is still best for babies.

New Baby, New Site

2009-10-02T15:30:00.001+08:00

Prior to giving birth, I already created a new site for the new baby in between entitled Gerby's Humble Beginnings. But then at the last minute, Daddy decided to change baby's name from Gerby to Gihan Raphael Paulo. So, I also thought it would be best to replace the title of the site or create a whole new site for our new bundle of joy. Perhaps, we can call it Gihan's Journey. And to make the site more personalized, I'm thinking about getting its own domain name and web site hosting service.

Getting a domain name for Gihan's site is an easier task since I've already acquired my own domain name in the past. But for web hosting, it's quite new to me since the last time I had my web site hosted, I asked my colleague to do it for me. So, now I'm thinking what could be the best web site hosting provider to get. I've already asked a couple of friends about it and they told me to check on WebHostingGeek for some web hosting reviews.

After doing a short reading, I found out that WebHostingGeek is the best guide to help me find the right web hosting for my new site. It provides reviews of the top web hosting providers - according to their features, rates, and others. It sure helps me a lot to compare the options available and arrive at a decision. Now, I already have a web host in mind. And it's good to know that I can very much do something to reduce the cost of web hosting after reading the site's blog.

So, in a couple of days, I'm off to creating my Baby Gihan's site. And with WebHostingGeek's help, I'm sure, I'll be off to a good start.

Welcome our New Baby in Between!

2009-09-28T15:11:00.002+08:00

Welcome our new baby - Baby Raphael Paulo! Born last September 25, 2009, 2:50PM, via NSD, 5.06 lbs. He's only at 36 weeks, a month early from his supposedly birth date. Thank God we survived the placenta previa complication! And thanks to all for your prayers and support!

Breast Feeding vs. Baby Formula Feeding

2009-09-05T16:10:00.000+08:00

The other day, my husband and I were talking about how I'll go about feeding our new baby once he comes out a month from now. I told him that I'll do mixed feeding, meaning I'll breastfeed and bottle feed at the same time. The reason: so it won't be difficult on my part to let baby get used to baby formula feeding once I returned to work. Just practical, I guess. But Daddy said, if he'd be the one to decide, he'd let me do breastfeeding alone because it's not only more nutritious for baby but it will allow us to enjoy more savings too.

I do agree with Daddy. Actually in the United States, mothers are encouraged to breastfeed because breast milk is not only the healthiest option but it is also free, allowing parents to save up to $2,000 for baby formula costs. However, there are some who choose to go on formula feeding rather than breast feeding for whatever reason. So, what the WIC does is that it introduced a new food package to encourage breastfeeding. Now, if a mom chooses the breastfeeeding package, she will no longer receive any infant formula. And if she chooses mixed feeding or total formula feeding, she will receive 13% less formula as compared to what was given last year. With these options, a mom will think otherwise about choosing formula feeding over breastfeeding because she will now have to pay more for buying regular formula on her own.

That's a great idea they got there at WIC. Of course, more mothers will be encouraged to do breastfeeding because less support is now given for infant formula. You know, if I'm not working, I'd be more than willing to do exclusive breastfeeding too. But then again, a few months after giving birth, I need to get back to work, which only means that baby has to settle on formula feeding while I'm away. Anyway, I'm looking at buying a less expesive formula so it won't be too hard on the budget. I tried this baby formula savings calculator to compare the cost of the brand I used to get for the baby in between and the Parent's Choice brand. Guess what? I could save with the latter as much as $56.94 per month. So, now I know what to get for my newbord, there's no doubt about that.

Pregnancy 33 Weeks: An Update

2009-09-04T11:22:00.003+08:00

Hi everyone! It's been a long time since I made the last update. And I know, you're all eager to know what's going on with me and my baby. We're still doing very much okay, so far we've already reached 33 weeks - a month or 4 weeks more to go before baby reaches full-term. I'm really praying hard that I'll reach up to 37 weeks. I'm no longer afraid of the thought that I'll go through cesarean delivery due to this placenta previa complication. As long as my baby is full-term, I'll take the sacrifice of the long recovery that goes with CS delivery.

So, what's with me and baby on 33rd week? Baby is still moving a lot while me here is moving very little. Waaahh! I'm still on bedrest. Imagine, I've been like this for over a month now. And believe me, it's no fun at all. Supposedly, since I'm on my 8th month, I should be nesting by now, the term they used when preggy women feel that sudden burst of energy to do things a month prior to delivery. If only I'm not restricted to do strenous activities, I could have been doing a lot of general cleaning right now. But I'm stuck in bed, so the only thing that makes me busy now is farming - that's right over there at Farmville, an FB application!

Oh, only a month for baby and me to go! On September 15, I'm off to my final ultrasound to determine whether the placenta is still there covering my cervix or if it migrated to clear the way for baby. I'm not very hopeful though, because last Sunday, I had another episode of bleeding, on which the bowl just turned red after I peed. Anyway, whatever the result is, I'm more than ready.

Kreativ Blogger Award

2009-08-20T05:10:00.000+08:00

This post has been sitting in my drafts for so long now. It's not that I want to keep this award all for myself; it's just that this difficult pregnancy is restricting me from long hours of blogging unlike before. And so, I apologize to Mommy Anne if I wasn't able to pass this award earlier. But really I'm glad that I'm one of the few people she remembered passing this award to. Now, it's my turn.

To accept this award do the following:

1. Thank the person who nominated you for this award.
2. Copy the logo and place it on your blog.
3. Link to the person who nominated you for this award.
4. Name 7 things about yourself that people might find interesting.
5. Nominate 7 Kreativ Bloggers.
6. Post links to the 7 blogs you nominate.
7. Leave a comment on each of the blogs letting them know they have been nominated.

Here are the 7 things about myself that people might find interesting:

1. I am a certified procrastinator. See, I even accomplished this tag just now.
2. I love traveling, unfortunately my supposedly first out-of-the-country trip was cancelled at the last minute. :(
3. I hate updating my Mac - software, etc. The last time I did that, the next thing I saw was that Kernel panic image.
4. I cry a lot and worry a lot. Okay, I admit, I'm more of a negative thinker than a positive one.
5. I don't like reading manuals, much more explore the features of the gadgets being given by Daddy. As long as I can use them, then that's it.
6. I never eat pineapple, it causes my tongue to be so itchy. And squash too.
7. I'm very stubborn. And Daddy hates that.

I am passing this award to some of my blogging friends. Hope to know more about you: Nays, Jhelea, Rose, Maidz, Wats, Wends, and Glady.

A Dream Vacation in Sustainable Switzerland After Giving Birth

2009-08-19T19:18:00.004+08:00

The past 7 months have been so difficult for me: the moving-in scene to our new home, the home improvements that I have to look after all by myself, the budgeting of finances, the accomplishing of tasks both for the permanent and freelance jobs, and worst of all, the pregnancy complication that until now I couldn't figure out why of all the pregnant people, out of the 200, it was me who got this placenta previa. All of these really stress me out to the highest level, and so after giving birth, I'm looking forward to have a dream vacation in a place where I can truly be with nature - a place like sustainable Switzerland.

Just look at the image above, isn't it a beauty? It's in Fuldera, Switzerland - popular tourist destination that offers the most breathtaking views of the panoramic Alps. I can imagine myself staying in that tranquil and enchanting village for a couple of days and spend hiking or camping with Daddy and the kids. Just look at the green meadows and the forest, for sure the place has a lot in store for vacationers like me.

But Switzerland is not only known for its Alps and its overall beauty. It is also known to be a very eco-friendly country as it is rich in organic products, its people can still enjoy fresh air while biking, offers easy access on train travel, and has lots of green friendly resorts and restaurant. It's so amazing how effective Switzerlands environmental policies are in making sure that pollution is reduced in the environment. I just hope that the same should be implemented in our country. So if you are a pollution-free environment advocate like myself, all the more you'll also appreciate spending a really nice vacation in this country.

I'm really looking forward to making this dream come true once I'm done with this pregnancy. I have lots of plans in mind once I'm there, like go hiking, camping, sight-seeing, and just be closer to nature. After all, I deserve a vacation as grand as this, right?

Pregnancy 30 Weeks: UTI and Possible Gestational Diabetes

2009-08-18T18:51:00.001+08:00

Yesterday was my scheduled prenatal visit. I was early at the hospital so I'll be the first on the list. Indeed, I was able to grab the number 1, but only because I was listed ahead of time by my OB's secretary. LOL. :D But anyway, before I went to her clinic, I first got my lab results: urinalysis, blood sugar, hepa, blood type, and two others which I forgot what they're for. While looking at the result, I felt somewhat relieved to see that the numbers were within the normal values. But that feeling of relief was only for a while. Because when my OB checked it, she did a little computation and so the end result: I have UTI (urinary tract infection) and possible gestational diabetes at pregnancy 30 weeks.

I wasn't surprised when she said that I have UTI and that my blood sugar level is somewhat high. It's because on this pregnancy, I have craved so much for salty and sweet foods. Dried fish for breakfast, junkfoods in between meals, softdrinks after every meal, and ice cream for dessert. So, what more can I expect? But after learning that, I somewhat felt angry at myself because of my stubbornness. Daddy kept telling me to avoid salty and sweet foods, but I did not listen. And so all I can say while my OB was giving me prescription medicines for UTI and subjecting me to another glucose test was, "Now, this is called reaping what you sow."

But even if I blame myself over and over, it won't help at all. So the least that I can do is to follow my doctor's advice, take the medication, and have the 2nd glucose test. Oh boy, this has really been the most difficult pregnancy that I've been through! I just can't wait to get over with this.

Seven more weeks to go - ready or not CS on October 8, here I come!

Time to Buy the Stephen Joseph Quilted Backpack

2009-08-12T10:13:00.004+08:00

While looking at my pre-school girl leaving for school yesterday, I noticed that her backpack already needs replacement. Although it still serves its purpose today, from the looks of it, the bag will give way in just a couple of weeks. So, I guess it's time to buy this Stephen Joseph quilted backpack.

The first time I saw this backpack from Posylane, I fell in love with it in an instant. Who would not be? Just look at it and for sure you'll agree. When I showed it to my daughter, she even smiled with so much excitement in her face. She just loved the Ladybug backpack. It has a front flap with magnetic closure and a carry strap handle on top, plus shoulder straps so she can carry it more comfortably.

I can't wait to get a Stephen Joseph backpack for my daughter. And I'm also thinking about getting two kids nap mats for her and Baby Gaby later on.

Pregnancy 29 Weeks: Placenta Previa, Bedrest, Losing Hope, Prayers

2009-08-11T13:12:00.003+08:00

For those who have been constantly visiting this blog, perhaps you're all wondering why I'm suddenly out of the blogging circulation. It's not that I became too lazy, or that I didn't have anything interesting to blog, but because I allowed myself to lie low for a while since I'm risking my baby from working too much.

The last time I made an update, I told you that I had another bleeding right? And so, I was advised by my OB to go on 2-wk bedrest. I was also advised to have the steroid shots to mature my baby's lungs, unfortunately I was not able to get one. But anyway, yesterday, I finally met the OB-gyne who will assist me during my baby's delivery. Her name is Dra. Mia Almeda, recommended to me by my neighbor here in our new place. She's really nice and accommodating. And she has all the answers as to why until now I'm having this dark brown discharge and other concerns that I have with regards to this pregnancy.

The main culprit: it's the placenta previa. :( Though it's partialis now, it still causes me to bleed. And so my OB told me if I can already file a leave in the office until I give birth. Huwaat?? As if it's that easy to do. But do I have any choice? She said I need to have maximum bedrest because if not, any moment, I might experience more bleeding than the one I'm experiencing now. Actually, she already set me for a pelvic ultrasound by August 31. According to her, if it still shows a partialis placenta previa, she will already schedule me for caesarean delivery in between the dates of October 1st and October 8th, 3 weeks prior to my due date. :(

So I guess there's no escape for me anymore. Even if I wanted to deliver this baby boy normally, I don't think it will be possible with this pregnancy complication. It'll be 3weeks more before my scheduled ultrasound but I'm already losing hope that the placenta will still move away from my cervix. Yes, I'm losing hope! And I'm expecting the worst. I just hope I'll be strong enough to pass this difficult ordeal that me and my baby will have to go through. I must admit, I'm feeling a bit weak just the thought that I have to deliver it via CS section, that I have to be on leave for a long time, that my hubby is not here, and that I have no immediate family as my support team during the delivery. So, what else could be worse than all of these?

As of now, all I'm holding on to is my faith in God. I may not be able to escape the reality that I have to go through CS delivery, but I know He will not leave me and my baby during this difficult time. Prayers, prayers, and more prayers. And so, I entrust me and my baby's life only to Him.

Own Domain Name and Web Hosting Thoughts for this Family Blog

2009-08-02T11:11:00.005+08:00

It's August already, but until now I haven't fully decided whether I'll give this family blog its own domain name and webhosting. I've been wondering for quite some time now why this doesn't seem to please Mr. Google, so if you'll notice it is still page rank-less. Of course, any blogger would want his/her blog to have a page rank. So, I was thinking maybe this one just needs its own domain name and web host. There's no harm in trying, right?

For the domain name, I already know where and how to get one since I've already tried purchasing a year ago. But for the web hosting, I'm still confused as to what site to turn to. Good thing, it did not take me long to find web hosting reviews via the Internet. When I came across webhostingratings.com, I told myself that this is the best place to start my search for web hosting services. This site provides a comprehensive list of web hosting providers, ranked according to their services' price, space, and traffic. By simply looking at the list, I can already tell which one gets the highest rating as far as customer satisfaction, reliability, and affordability are concerned.

After checking the site, I already have one in mind. But since I don't know much about web hosting yet, I decided to search further about the basics of web hosting.

How about you? Are you also in need of webhosting services? Visit webhostingrating.com now!

Top Entrecard Droppers for July

2009-08-02T10:54:00.004+08:00

Although I'm still on 2-week bed rest, there's no stopping me to make this quick post and say thank you to my top entrecard droppers for July. "I do appreciate your regular visit on my blog." I hope you'll keep coming back and drop your EC here. I'll try to do the same as much as I can. Once again, THANK YOU!

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Fashionable Eyeglasses for Children

2009-08-01T07:44:00.004+08:00

While on our way to the hospital yesterday, I've seen a little girl, about the same age of Yana, already wearing eyeglasses. I was thinking, she's too young to be wearing one, just like my godchild named Angeli Marie who started wearing eyeglasses as early as 4 years old. But the two are nothing compared to our neighbor here, she's only 1 1/2 years old but she's already wearing one. Hmmm. I wonder why they are required to wear eyeglasses, maybe their eye defects are congenital.

But anyway, whatever the reason is, I'd be glad to recommend to them these very affordable yet stylish and high quality $ 8 Rx eyeglasses from Zenni Optical. I'm sure these will look great on my godchild and on our neighbor's child. They will look more fashionable, while they're parents will get to enjoy great savings. Actually, a lot of people have already experienced the convenience of having Zenni eyeglasses and many have seen Zenni Optical on TV!!! A blogger even blogged about it saying High Five to Zenni Optical. So, there's no doubt Zenni is the site to visit when it comes to online shopping convenience for high quality, affordable, and fashionable eyeglasses for children.

I visited the site just this morning and I've seen one that will look good on my godchild. Here let me show it to you:

Ready for the Steroid Shots

2009-07-31T11:46:00.002+08:00

After reading forum posts of those who have already experienced getting steroid shots, I decided that it's indeed best for me to take them. So, in a while, I'm off to the hospital to take the 1st dose of Betamethasone to mature my baby's lungs. I just hope there's an OB-gyne available at the hospital nearest me. I've been searching for the paper containing the OB schedules, but I failed to find it. No choice for me then but to try and see if I'd be able to get the first dose today

Steroid Shots, Bedrest, and Work From Home at Pregnancy 27 Weeks

2009-07-30T09:07:00.004+08:00

After the bleeding episode last Tuesday night, again I spotted in the morning. So, I did not have second thoughts about going to Healthway clinic to see my OB-Gyne. Unfortunately, she wasn't there so another OB checked me. First, she got my history and asked what I was feeling at the moment. I told her about the placenta previa partialis, the vaginal bleeding, and the mild contractions. She immediately recommended that I file an indefinite leave in the office because of my high-risk pregnancy. But after she checked my vagina via speculum, she said that all I needed was to be confined at the hospital at least overnight and to have a 2-week bedrest but may work from home. The only restrictions she gave me were no to long distance traveling, no strenous activities, and no to lifting heavy stuff.

I was having second thoughts though about the hospital admission overnight. It's just me and the nanny here, so if I'd be admitted that means I have to be at the hospital alone. The main reason why it was needed was because of the steroid shots that the OB-gyne recommended. She said that since my pregnancy is high-risk, I should be given Betamethasone to mature the baby's lungs. She explained that since this was already my third episode of bleeding with mild contractions, there's a possibility that I'll deliver the baby early. With the steroid shots given, she said that even if my baby does not reach full term, he has a big chance of survival.

Up to now, I haven't reached the decision whether I'll get the shots or not. But at the back of my mind, something's telling me that I should. For now, the company already allowed me to have 2-wk bedrest with work-from-home privilege. Thanks to my very considerate boss there!

I'll keep you all posted about my condition. Thanks, by the way, for all your concern!

Another Episode of Vaginal Bleeding at 27 Weeks Pregnancy

2009-07-28T21:33:00.001+08:00

True, just a while ago, I had another episode of vaginal bleeding. It scared the hell out of me when I saw the water in the bowl turned bright red. I panicked, of course. Because I thought since I'm only experiencing placenta previa partialis now, I'm free from worrying about any episode of vaginal bleeding again. But I was wrong.

I'm only 27 weeks pregnant, so just the thought that I'm already going through premature labor really scares me to death. I mean, who would not? I guess, any expectant mom would if they know it's not yet time for the baby to come out.

I'm really thinking hard why I'm bleeding again. Could it be from the stress I get from work? From the long travel I do everyday? From the constant headaches that Daddy, the kids, and the nanny are giving me? From the freelance work that I do even on weekends? Or simply from thinking so hard as to how to go about everything: the family's expenses, the budget for the delivery, the baby's things, the coming of the in-laws, etc. etc. ?

And even if I wanted to be at the hospital right now just to be sure I'm not going through premature labor, I just can't. So, I'd just stay here, rest, and monitor my tummy and the bleeding. If it doesn't stop in a while, I'll rush to the nearest hospital even if that means I'd go alone.

Still As Busy As a Bee

2009-07-27T11:08:00.004+08:00

It's already Monday, second rest day for me, but not true to its word, funny that I'm still as busy as a bee even as of this moment. I have a deadline to beat by evening, a 5-year old kid with a 38.3degrees fever to look after, and a 1 1/2yr old toddler to bear with when her tantrums attack. Sometimes I would wish that I have superpowers to do all these without feeling tired and stressed out. Oh, and I forgot to mention that I have a 27-week baby inside me taking all these stress and fatigue with me.

Really it's difficult to be a multi-tasking mom. But I know that I should not be complaining because I'm still way luckier than the others. I should feel lucky that I have a full-time work to provide me with the permanent income, a freelance job to help me earn extra income on the side, two little girls that make me complete, and a baby on the way who will fulfill my dreams of having a man to look after me when I grow old.

I'm really a one lucky woman out here. So, even if I am still as busy as a bee, I won't complain any further. After all, these too shall pass - the deadline in particular. And speaking of deadline, I'd better go back to my article writing before the writer's block hits me again. Ciao!

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Dinovite Dog Shampoo: A Gift for Jaymee

2009-07-25T20:28:00.006+08:00

Hey guys! Meet Jaymee! Ate Raziel's so cute and adorable princess type sitsu. Isn't she a cutie? I'm sure you can't wait to have one as well. Actually, when we first met Jaymee, my kids and I fell really in love with her. At first, we thought she was a stuff toy. But after I've seen more of her photos, I finally believed that she's a real doggie. And the kids were asking me if I can also get one for them. As if that easy! When I asked about how much it costs, you won't believe that it's almost the same price of one living room set. Whew! Can I afford that? Hmmm. Maybe not for now. Perhaps, what my budget can only accommodate is a dog shampoo like the one from Dinovite.

Dinovite is one of the most reliable online resource when it comes to your pet's good health. Whether it's dog shampoo, supplements, or any other treat that you need, they have one in store for you. Been thinking how to get rid of your dog's itching, stinking, and scratching? Or fed up bathing your pet there because no matter how you rinse and rinse, you still can't get it completely cleaned up? No worries, Dinovite has the perfect product for you - the DogOsuds. Made from natural ingredients, this dog shampoo will make your dog not only smelling clean and wonderful but also looking good and healthy. It works well on sensitive skin, so no need to worry about drying or irritating it. And it is made to be natural flea deterrent, so this time your dog will stop scratching like before.

DogOsuds is really the best dog shampoo any dog could ever have. And so for a doggie as cute as Ate Raziel's Jaymee, I guess she deserves also the best from Dinovite. So I'm thinking about getting one to give her as gift. How about you? Is your dog itching, scratching and stinking beyond belief? Get DogOsuds now!

Flu Shots for Kids and Preggy Mommy

2009-07-25T14:11:00.004+08:00

Today is the scheduled date for the flu shots to be administered to employees and our dependents here in the office. I registered, and so are my two little girls. Unfortunately, yesterday, I was told by our company nurse that only kids 3 years old and above can take the vaccine. Hmmm. I wondered why? So, I made a quick research about flu shots for babies and toddlers and I've learned that shots are even recommended now for all children younger than 5. So, I'm really puzzled why my Baby Gab can't have the vaccine. Anyway, here's more about the safety of flu shots for babies and toddlers.

Now, since Baby Gaby can't have the vaccine, only me and my 5-year old Yana will have it. But just a while ago, our company nurse asked me if my OB is okay with the idea that I get a flu shot. I alread asked one OB almost a month ago about this and she said that flu shot is safe for pregnant women. But I don't know why I'm having second thoughts about it now. So, again, I made another research about safety of flu shots for pregnant women to be sure. Read here.

Still I'm having second thoughts. Should I or should I not?

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Mommy Moments - First Steps

2009-07-24T15:10:00.012+08:00

Hello everyone - mommies and non-mommies alike! It's Friday again, and so it's another series of Mommy Moments - this time featuring our little one's first steps. Anyway, here's my entry.

Both Daddy and I were not able to witness our Baby Gaby's first steps. Daddy was in South Korea while I was here in the metropolis, leaving the baby in between at my in-laws care together with the nanny. According to her Ate Rose, Gab started making her first steps as early as 9 months. She first did it by holding on to the bed's headboard. Then, when she's on the floor, she also held on to the bed's sides for assistance. I got to see her do that when I went home around August of 2008. I even took a video of her, unfortunately the video was among the files I lost when my MacBook was reformatted.

Anyway, even if Daddy and I were not able to see her first "real" steps, I'd like to share to you here her first steps with us, together as a complete family. These pictures were taken when Daddy came home last October of 2008(their first meeting), prior to her 1st birthday. See, there's a lot of firsts there LOL :D !

(Okay Gab, Ready...)

(Get set...)

(And go...)

(Got yah, Mommy!)

(Okay, with Daddy now! Move out of the walkalator you two!)

(Okay Dad, why don't we go and leave Mommy behind?)

I so love that last photo there. Daddy and Gab looked so sweet HHWW - holding hands while walking HAHA!

That's it for now! Want to see more of Mommy Moments? Click here.

The In-Laws Are Coming

2009-07-23T07:03:00.004+08:00

Three months from now, my in-laws will be joining us at our home for a month. They're coming to assist me when I give birth on October. With just me, the nanny, and the 2 kids around, I don't think we can handle everything. And besides, it's different when another family member is around during this rather "painful" time, especially a mom at that.

Last year, when I gave birth to Baby Gaby, I had my aunt and uncle around. So, I got a little support there. Initially, I was not thinking about letting my father- and mother-in-law to come here during my delivery date. I so thought that the nanny and I can manage. But with the siblings having regular fights lately, I don't think so. And so, after I told Daddy that perhaps it would be better if his mom is here, he immediately called her and told her to come.

So there. Three months from now our home will be filled with new faces. Hehe :). This will be the first time that they'll see what their son has been investing on over the past year. I just hope they will like our new home and will enjoy their almost one-month stay. For now, let me book their tickets while some flights are still on promo. Ciao!

Joining Summer Camps is Fun

2009-07-22T20:03:00.004+08:00

When I was around my early teens, I used to join Summer Camps organized by our local church. If I remember it right, I joined for three consecutive summers, making my school break days really productive and full of fun. I met a few new friends, developed closer bonding with old ones, and learned a lot about the Christian faith during those three summer camps. Boy, I was really glad that Mama and Papa allowed me and my brothers to be there. Or else, we would have missed a lot during those school breaks.

Now that I am a mom myself, I'm thinking about letting my little girls attend summer camps when they're bigger. But with the busy schedule that I have, I don't think it'll be easy for me to find local events in my area. Good thing the local events widget from Nickelodeon is now very much accessible. By simply entering the zip code, parents can be connected to the fun activities for the family available in the area.

Wow, so that means summer camps are not just for kids alone these days! I wonder why we didn't have those when we were kids. It would have been a great experience spending the summer with the whole family, and not just us siblings. But anyway, I'd just do it with my family now so they'll also experience the fun of joining summer camps.

Toddler Tantrums - When to Say "NO"

2009-07-22T09:48:00.005+08:00

Last night, when I got home from work, I was too exhausted so the last thing that I wanted was for the kids to start having arguments. At first, they were doing ok - Yana showing me her "Star" stamped on her hands because she did well in school while Gaby was showing the Ice Tea moves, imitating the dance in the new commercial of Ice Tea. Of course, I was happy seeing them that way. But then after a while, guess what happened.

Perhaps, you already know. The usual sibling rivalry started, and it's because of Gab's tantrums. That's right! Often times, when the two fight, it's because Gab has her toddler tantrums again. She wants everything by herself, toys, books, cellphone, PSP, mommy's wallet, ballpen, even the attention of her Daddy when Yana tries to move the laptop towards her. And when she doesn't get them, she'll start crying, and worse, screaming.

Being a full-time working mom at that, sometimes Gab's tantrums really get into my nerves. And so the least that I do is to tell her Ate Yana to just give in to what Baby Gaby wanted. I know, it's wrong, and Yana will eventually realize that what I do is also wrong, because when she has tantrums herself, I never give in to her and I say no.

Oh, I just don't know what to do with Gaby. I want to say "NO" to her when she wants everything for herself beyond reason, but I just can't with all the stress that I already take from work at the office and outside. If only it's so easy to follow what this article says:

When to say “No”

Although tantrums are a normal fact of toddler life, they can be minimised by setting sensible limits – for yourself as well as your child.
Say “No” to frustration beyond your toddler’s tolerance limits

Challenges are necessary for children to develop, but try to step in before a challenge becomes a frustration by offering help. Guide gently, but don’t take over. For instance, gently turn the puzzle piece so he can put it in by himself. When you sense your tot is reaching the brink, create a diversion towards a calming, soothing activity – a different place, a toy, a hug, a story, a song or perhaps a snack.

Say “No” to overwhelming situations

Look for common tantrum triggers. Do they seem to happen mostly when your tot is tired? hungry? rushed? Are there situations he finds difficult to handle such as playgroup or shopping? Keeping a tantrum diary might help you understand triggers.

Try to think ahead and limit overwhelming situations. For instance, plan short shopping trips when he isn’t tired, take nutritious snacks whenever you go out and don’t wait for difficult behaviour before you offer food.

Say “No” to junk food

Some foods can adversely affect children’s behaviour. Sweets can trigger blood sugar variations, caffeine in ‘coke’ drinks can hype kids up for hours – so they are literally unable to sit still, let alone fall asleep, and additive or chemicals – even in foods that are normally considered healthy can affect some sensitive tots. Again a tantrum diary might shed light on tantrum triggers.
Say “No” to misunderstandings

Try to tune in and listen carefully to what your little one is trying to tell you. Encourage toddlers to express frustration or anger verbally. If their language skills are limited, help out. Say “you look angry that your block tower crashed.” Or, “I get angry too, when I can’t have what I want.”

Say “No” to too many rules

Don’t sweat the small things. Rules like seatbelts and holding hands near roads are not negotiable, but a balance between health and safety and a happy day can benefit family relationships (and sanity), so childproof your home and keep rules for really important things.

Say “No” to too many choices

Opportunities to make decisions help a toddler feel in control but too many choices can confuse and overwhelm him. Instead of open-ended choices – “what do you want to wear?” ask “would you like to wear your blue shirt or the red one?”

Say “No” and mean it

It’s far better to say “yes” initially than to change your mind after your child has exploded. (Remember “maybe” means yes to a child). Rewarding genuinely uncontrollable tantrums can encourage tots to use (semi)deliberate tantrums to get what they want.

Say “No” to embarrassment

It can be difficult to consider your child’s feelings when he performs a tantrum in public but whatever you do, don’t yell back, don’t smack and don’t resort to giving in because you feel embarrassed. And please, don’t walk away from an out of control tot in places like shopping centres. It is scary enough to be out of control without also feeling abandoned. The best thing you can do here is scoop up your child and leave.

Say “Yes” to comfort

Because you know your child best, you’ll know whether he’s better letting off steam by himself (with you nearby) or whether he needs to be held quietly. If you find walking away works for your child, return when he settles, hug him and say “I’m still here and I love you.” Giving reassurance is not giving in. Just as adults need comfort when they feel upset or overwhelmed, toddlers need to know they are loved, even when their behaviour isn’t lovable.

Source: www.bellybelly.com.au

Purple Towel Wrap, I Like!

2009-07-21T12:45:00.003+08:00

When I first saw this purple towel wrap from Posy Lane, I immediately fell in love with it. Now, I can't get it out of my head and can't wait to have one for myself. It's sad though that I can't buy it for now because I still have other pending stuff to buy like the baby clothes, crib, new set of feeding bottles, cloth diapers, booties, mittens, toddler shoes and nap mat for Baby Gaby, and of course, the laundry bag that I've also been eyeing on for some time.

It'll be 93 days more before I give birth and so I'm really thinking that this new purple towel wrap will be the perfect gift I can give to myself. It'll definitely feel great to have something softer and more colorful to wrap my body after I take that first post-natal bath.

So, what do you think? Should I include it in my budget now?

Hands Are Full

2009-07-20T23:57:00.001+08:00

I may not be as lucky as my blogging friend, Jhelea, when it comes to pleasing Mr. Google, but I'm still lucky in other ways because as of now, my hands are full. It may not be because of money making sites, but because of freelance jobs that keep coming in. Sometimes I even ask myself if I can still chew more than what I can only swallow. But then again, no regrets for me when doing more work than usual. I needed the extra income, and a little sacrifice might be worth it in the end.

So, yeah, my hands are full. But I'm thankful because God continues to shower me with these blessings. I'd be worried if no extra work comes in for me anymore. For now, I'll keep the fire in me burning - or should I say that writer's enthusiasm in me. *wink*

Preggy Mom's Night Out - The A. Venue Hotel Experience

2009-07-18T10:46:00.007+08:00

At last, after a hundred years (Haha! just kidding :D ), I was able to spend a night out with my best friend yesterday. In the morning, she texted me that she's in Makati, staying in a really cozy hotel called A. Venue Hotel Suites. She didn't have company, so she asked me if I can sleepover. Even if I wanted to, I couldn't say yes in an instant because of course, I had to ask permission from Daddy.

At lunch time, when Daddy went online, I told him if I can go and spend a night with my best friend. He asked where the place was and who will be with us. It was just me and my best friend, so he said yes. At 4:00 pm, off I went to SM Makati, to meet my best friend whom I haven't seen over the past 5 months.

Anyway, fast forward, around 8 pm we headed to the hotel where she was checked in. It wasn't that huge like EDSA Shangri-la or Century Park, but it was A-ok. Her unit looked elegant and cozy, with a space for kitchen, dining, living room, and one bedroom. Plus, it also includes the following:

Air-conditioning
LCD television with cable connection
Coffee / Tea maker
Double bed
Hair dryer
Internet connectivity in room
Microwave
Mini-bar
Non-smoking provision
Private toilet and bath
Room safe
Shower with seat tub
Telephone with IDD/NDD access
DVD player
Stand up television

The unit was really okay. All the time, I was checking the interior design for ideas - the floor tiles, cabinets, furniture, toilet and bath, bed, beddings, television, walls, ceilings, everything. Haha. I even remembered my best friend asking me if I wanted to meet with the hotel's interior designer so I can ask everything about the unit. :D But really, I was so amazed; and I so badly want our home to be just like that, particularly the master's bedroom. I wanted it to have that hotel room feel, so that when Daddy comes home, he'll be more comfortable unlike when we were just renting a room in Pasig.

In the morning, my best friend and I woke up at around 7am (hehe first time in months for me not to report early for work). She said we have a complimentary breakfast - oh just what me and the little eater inside me want! The breakfast was superb, I so loved the French toast! All the time I was eating, I was thinking about the kids, the nanny, and Daddy. I even told my best friend that I'll let them experience the hotel experience as well even for a day or two. Perhaps, when Daddy comes home next year, I'll plan a travel for us family and book ourselves in a really nice hotel like A. Venue.

Oh well, it was just a night out, but I certainly had fun bonding with my best friend. Too bad, we didn't have pictures together. Still, I'm cameraless, and though my phone has one, I never bothered because it doesn't have a USB cable. Anyway, let me just show you a pic of the unit we stayed in A. Venue Hotel Suites Makati.

Mommy Moments - Playing Time

2009-07-17T08:33:00.005+08:00

For this week's theme, it's playing time for our little kiddos - one of the favorite things that they love doing. With my Baby Gaby, well she's not really into toys, like Barbie dolls and stuff. She's more of the techie one. hehe :) She just loves to grab the PSP once she sees her Ate playing with it, the nunchuck for the Nintendo Wii, or the cellphone. I don't know why Baby Gab is very much into gadgets, perhaps she saw that in her dad.

But anyway, when Daddy was here, they were able to spend a really quality playing time together. Let me show you their pictures when we went to Megamall's World's of Fun last January.

I just love watching my big boy and my little girl play together. Soon, we'll have our little boy joinin' in. 'Til next Friday for more Mommy Moments.

Ugly Sweaters...Just Right for the Ugly Weather

2009-07-17T07:34:00.004+08:00

For three consecutive days now, the weather has been very ugly, as in. Imagine, I came in the office this morning with my sandals dripping wet, and my jacket slightly wet too. Ugh! And my ordeal doesn't end there, now I'm shivering here at my desk because the air conditioning is way too cold. Brrrr. My jacket won't be much of help either because it's a little wet as well. So, what else can I do? I don't think I'll be able to stand the cold for 8 straight hours in here. Can anybody lend me another jacket please? Even Ugly Sweaters will do.

Oh, speaking of Ugly Sweaters, let me share a little info about this site that offers Ugly Christmas Sweaters and Mens Ugly Sweaters. You think I'm kidding? Nah! It's true. Ugly Sweaters is an online resource that offers a wide selection of the ugliest sweaters that you'll ever see. You might say, "Who would want ugly sweater this time of the year?" Well, there are a couple of people out there who want. And they just can't help but laugh once they wore them. They also make great unique gifts, so if you haven't found that gift for your humorous friend, why not give him/her one of these Ugly Sweaters.

Ugly Sweaters are just right for the ugly weather we’re experiencing now. And, with the added humor in them, perhaps our bad rainy day may turn out okay at the end of the day.

Tips on Feeding A Toddler

2009-07-16T13:32:00.003+08:00

Feeding Baby Gaby has been a struggle for me the past days. When she was around 11 months old, this was never a problem to me and the nanny. We simply put her food in a separate plate and then let her hold the spoon herself. I let her use the bed tray to serve as her own table, and she loved it.

But lately, things are not happening the way I expected them to be, as far as feeding Gaby is concerned. Now that she has more teeth, I don't understand why she's having a hard time chewing and swallowing her food. Plus, whenever we let her eat alone, all the food just end up on the floor since she's contented with that one spoonful she has on her mouth. Ugh! The end result: I'm now the one feeding her, waiting for her to chew and swallow, which actually takes like forever.

Are you in the same boat as mine? I mean, are you also having problems feeding your toddler? If you are, well, I did a little research a while ago and I might as well share this information to you.

Tips on Feeding a Toddler

1. Mealtimes should be set on a regular schedule. Three meals a day along with 2-3 snacks per day is sufficient for a toddler.

2. Sit down and enjoy the meal with your toddler. Mealtimes are as much a social experience as a nutritional one. Here you have the opportunity to model table etiquette, use of utensils, encourage language and sneak in a break for yourself.

3. Don't expect a toddler to sit for an hour and a half while you and your spouse chat over dinner. If your child says he's finished after just 5-10 minutes at the table, let him be excused. Do not offer him anything to eat until the next meal or snack. Always follow this rule and your child will learn to eat when he can.

4. Feeding time with a toddler is messy. Allow your child to feed himself whenever possible. Don't worry if it looks like more food is ending up on his head than in his mouth.

5. Give your toddler choices amongst the food you put on his plate. Do not make exceptions for your child and make him something different if he refuses what you have served him. If four food items are put on his plate be sure to make at least one of them something he likes. A bread choice is good to offer as it is rarely refused. Remember his likes and dislikes can change at any time so continue to expose him to different foods and even to foods he has previously refused.

6. Do not let your toddler drink milk and juice all day long. Sipping on drinks all day can curb their appetite and interfere with good nutrition.

Info Source: www.ehow.com

So there. I hope you find that info helpful as much as I do. I certainly learn a lot from reading it. Now, it's time to apply it to my little monster. Hehe LOL! :D Just kidding.

DogOsuds: The Perfect Dog Shampoo for Bibo

2009-07-15T20:19:00.005+08:00

Bibo who? Oh, it's another dog of my neighbor!

Remember my post about Budoy and Enya? Budoy is our dog that scratches, stinks, and itches beyond relief. Even if my dad wash him today, the next day he smells so bad again. And his skin is so dry and flaky, so we could not really bath him everyday. I wonder how he is now. The last time I saw him was when I visited my dad.

So since Budoy's not here, let me share to you about Bibo this time - Enya's playmate. I've seen Enya the other day, and oh that girl doggie is looking good and smelling better. Maybe my neighbor took my advice to use dog shampoo for her. She look so amazing now; she no longer scratches, stinks, and itches like before. So, today, it's Bibo's turn.

The problem with Bibo is actually the same that of Enya's. He also keeps on scratching and smells really stinky. But what bothers Bibo's owner more is that whenever he washes Bibo, like for example he washes him today, the next day he'll smell as if he never took a bath. And worse, he get to wash him just once a week or every other week at that because his skin is so dry and flaky. Oh, I could just imagine how hard this must be for my neighbor! Hmmm. Maybe it's time I share to him this exciting new product from Dinovite - the DogOsuds.

The DogOsuds is a natural shampoo which contains a 100% pure, therapeutic grade essential oils. These oils are known to have healing properties, so the shampoo can do a lot for Bibo's flaky skin. It also contains no harsh chemicals, no fillers, and no perfumes - which is just perfect so that Bibo will no longer experience dry skin. And as far as rinsing is concerned, no need to worry since this dog shampoo is made to lather beautifully and can be rinsed easily.

So, what else would anyone look for in a dog shampoo? Oh yes, I forgot to mention - the DogOsuds is also a natural flea deterrent, so Bibo can now say goodbye to scratching! Indeed, there are lots of benefits that come in using DogOsuds. And I can hardly wait to see how this perfect dog shampoo will work wonders on Bibo.

How about you? Is your dog itching, scratching and stinking beyond belief?

99 Days and Still Counting

2009-07-15T14:47:00.002+08:00

It'll be 99 days more before my Baby Gerby comes out. While writing this, I couldn't help but remember my countdown days with Baby Gaby before. I've been through a lot of stress when I was carrying her, and this time it's no different with Gerby. It's like a dejavu. Maybe this is a curse or something, that whenever I'm pregnant, I have to go through so much ordeal before I can actually feel joy.

Oh, 99 days, still a long wait! :( I can't wait to see how my baby boy looks.

Some Space...I Need a Break

2009-07-14T14:00:00.002+08:00

I badly need a break right now. I feel so stressed out. I can hardly breath. I've been carrying these problems for so long now. And this baby here inside me is the one suffering more.

I love my husband, I love my kids, I love my work, and I love this baby. But I'm having a hard time doing the best for my husband, for my kids, for my work, and for this baby because I hardly feel that love for myself. I need some "me" time. Ever since I got pregnant, all I ever think of are the expenses for the delivery, the monthly amortization, the bills, the extra work for extra income, the stuff needed for the house, and the kids' needs. No time for myself, not even a day.

I want out of this pregnancy soon. It restricts me from spending time for myself. Now, my daily routine is work-home-work-home. I could not even go out with friends on weekends, much more do some shopping because we hardly got the extra cash to do that.

I am happy that I'm having this baby boy, no doubt about that. But I'm not too happy about my life now. I'm being enslaved by my vulnerable side again. And I don't like it, not at all. So, I guess, some space will help. Hopefully!

Out with the Old, In with the New...Toddler Shoes

2009-07-13T17:50:00.006+08:00

Beginning today, Baby Gab's going to say bye-bye to two of her pre-loved toddler shoes, her Nike sneakers and her KaBoosh shoesy.

I gave her the Nike sneakers as a gift for her 1st birthday last year. Since I bought her a size bigger, I thought it'll fit her until she turns 2. But I guess, I underestimated her size. See, it's only been 8months since I bought it and now it won't fit her. Same with the Kaboosh shoes. I also bought it to be used for her 1st birthday party. Now, it doesn't fit her as well.

Oh, babies really grow so fast these days! I have no choice now but to get Baby Gaby a new set of toddler shoes. But, I'm thinkin' about being a little practical this time. I'd say no more to branded and expensive toddler shoes, and yes to less expensive but still quality one.

Another Friendship Chain

2009-07-12T20:57:00.000+08:00

I got another friendship chain, this time it's from Mommy Beng of Beng's Entertainment Spree. She's one of the mommy bloggers that I admire here in the blogosphere. We actually have two things in common, we're both working moms and wives to OFW husbands. But we manage, right Mommy Beng?

"Anyway, thanks for this friendship chain Mommy. I appreciate it. And boy I'm glad that I made it to your top entrecard droppers for June. "

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Now, I'm passing this to all the bloggers included in my blogger list. Happy friendship! :)

Baby Gaby is Having a Baby Brother

2009-07-11T11:04:00.001+08:00

Yes, it's official! Daddy and I's long time dream has finally come true. We're having a baby boy! Baby Gaby is having a baby brother soon. And we're all very excited.

When I told Daddy about the news, he didn't want to believe at first. Or perhaps, he just couldn't believe it that we got the timing right. But after I showed him the ultrasound photos via webcam, he was beaming with such a big smile. I could see how happy he was. And I was really expecting it. He suddenly forgot that we just had a big fight a few days back. LOL :D

So that's it! Baby Gaby is having a baby brother in 3 months time. I wonder if he'll look just like her. I like! *wink*

Mommy Moments - Pouting Face

2009-07-10T22:44:00.004+08:00

Oh boy, it's almost 11:00pm now, but I'm still very much awake because I just finished my new "writing opportunity". But before I go to bed, I want to make this quick post as my entry for this week's Mommy Moments with the theme Pouting Face.

Actually, I wasn't able to find photos of Baby Gab with a pouting face. So, I hope these gloomy and crying faces will do.

(Pic was taken during her 4th month birthday. See how she cries! She looked very unhappy with that rainbow cake.)

(3-month old Baby Gab, not up for a pictorial that day!)

Anyway, before I end this, I have a confession to make. All this time I was thinking that the theme for today is Pouting Lips. So a couple of days back, I took pictures of Baby Gaby with her pouting lips using my Mac's photo booth. But after reading Mommy Tetcha's Mommy Moments post last night, I realized that it was Pouting Face and not Pouting Lips for this week's theme. Silly me! :D But anyway, I included the pics here to show you how my little girl pouts her lips.

(Come on Gab, you can do better than that!)

(There! Haha. See the lips!)

Until next Friday mommies. Good night!

Spreading the Love

2009-07-10T14:39:00.003+08:00

Mommy Mel of Adrienne Dannielle blog gave me this award. Mommy Mel is also an expectant mom like me, and Adrienne Dannielle is the name of her baby #2. Ever since I come across her blogs, I find myself keep coming back to read her updates and leave comments from time to time. So, to you Mommy Mel, thanks a bunch for this award!

Rules:
1. Copy the badge and put it on your blog.
2. Link back the person who passed you this award.
3. Spread the love to at least 10 or more blogger.

Let me start spreading this love award to others. So, to those who are on my blog lists, feel free to grab it because I'm passing it to you guys. You all deserve some lovin'.

A simple smile and love could brighten one's day ! Indeed!

God is Good

2009-07-09T10:17:00.004+08:00

In spite of the many times that I neglect to thank God for all His blessings, He never ceases to amaze me how Good He is. Yes, God is good! And once more, He has shown it to me. I've been feeling a little depressed lately, but just like what my friend said, I should not be crying over spilled milk, but instead do something more productive to divert my attention. And indeed, it's happening.

I've been doing more work than usual lately, and yes, blessings keep coming in! My ultrasound result the other day was okay, the kids are okay, and I am okay, so to speak. And just a while ago, an angel was sent to me by the name of Jon. I'm on a trial period beginning today, and hopefully will become a regular member in five days time. My friend and colleague, Maidz, will give me the orientation about the whole process in a while. (By the way, she's the one who introduced me to him by sending my blog link. Thanks a lot for the kind endorsement, Maidz! Treat will come later, once I become a regular :D)

I'm really excited about this new opportunity. It shows, I even blogged about it! *wink* And really, I thank God for the blessings. God is really good!

Image credit: www.oneyearbibleblog.com

Placenta Previa Partialis and Transverse Baby

2009-07-08T09:42:00.000+08:00

As promised, here is my update regarding my pelvic ultrasound yesterday.

Placenta Previa Partialis

I've mentioned here almost two months ago that I am experiencing a pregnancy complication called placenta previa totalis. It is a high-risk complication which can endanger me and my baby. Good thing, yesterday the result showed that I'm no longer experiencing one. But, I'm not yet worry-free as I'm still experiencing placenta previa, but this time it's partialis.

Now, what is Placenta Previa Partialis? It is a pregnancy complication where in the placenta partly covers the cervix, slightly blocking the way where the baby will pass during a normal delivery. Although it is possible now for me to deliver the baby normally, I'm still hoping that the placenta will completely go out of the way since I'm just 24 weeks pregnant.

Here is an image showing a partial placenta previa, low-lying placenta, and placenta previa totalis. See the difference.

Transverse Baby

Now, for my next update. From breech position, now baby is on a trasverse lie, which means that the baby has "his" head to one of my sides and the bottom across my abdomen and other side. Should I say this is also good news? Not really because a baby who is lying sideways cannot be born vaginally. So, that means I'm still at risk of delivering the baby via Cesarean section, which I don't really want to experience. But according to the sonologist, the baby can still change position to cephalic presentation (head down) until the 36th week. Here is an image of a transverse baby.

Now, I'm really hoping that the placenta and my baby will still move by the time my due date comes. I really don't want to go through CS delivery. Aside from being expensive, it's recovery is also slower than the normal one.

Image Source: www.horizon-bcbsnj.com

Thank You

2009-07-07T20:42:00.003+08:00

In as much as I want to share to you how my pelvic ultrasound went this afternoon, my body and my eyes just don't want to cooperate. I already feel so exhausted when I got home tonight, and I guess I have to get that much needed rest as soon as possible. Tomorrow, I'll be up at 4AM again to prepare for work, and travel almost 2hours just to be at the office by 7AM. I have deadlines to meet as well, so I better reserve my energy for tomorrow.

But as quick update, I'm doing ok now. The bleeding is now back to dark brown, like a discharge. But before I go to bed, allow me to say Thank You to those who left their comments in my Bleeding Again post. Even if you don't know me personally, you've shown your concern to a struggling preggy mom here. Please accept my sincerest gratitude. From the bottom of my heart, I say:

Good night everyone! Until tomorrow :)

Dog Shampoo for Enya

2009-07-07T19:39:00.000+08:00

I've mentioned about Enya here before, right? She’s the cute little doggie of our neighbor that scratches and sheds a lot. Although she’s nice to hold, sometimes you will think twice about doing so because she doesn’t smell very good. So, what she really needs is this dog shampoo from Dinovite.

With Dinovite dog shampoo, Enya will smell fresher and look more adorable for a longer period. And if she keeps scratching before, this time it won’t be since this dog shampoo is a natural flea deterrent and it is proven to work well on sensitive skin. Plus, it does not contain harsh chemicals, perfumes, or even fillers, so Enya is guaranteed of a healthier dog skin all throughout.

Oh, I’m so excited to see the new Enya! I’d better ask my neighbor if she already ordered the dog shampoo from Dinovite. From what I’ve seen in their site, there are four exciting blends to choose from. These are unscented, lavender, essential oil blend, and peppermint/tea tree. Hmmm. I wonder what will suit Enya best. Maybe it’s the peppermint one since it has ingredients proven to soothe and heal. So the next time I see her, she won’t be scratching here and there.

Way to go Enya!

Bleeding Again

2009-07-06T19:08:00.001+08:00

When I went inside the CR this afternoon, I had another shock of my life. I am bleeding once again, but if before I went straight to the doctor, this time I chose to stay home and wait for tomorrow to come. Maybe, the reason why it happened again is because of the too much stress that I'm getting lately, not only the disappointments from the office but also here at home.

I'm too scared to know the reason why I'm bleeding again today that's why I put off my supposedly scheduled ultrasound this afternoon. I'm not yet ready to hear the words from my OB that I'm not yet placenta-previa-totalis free. I wanted to take care of this baby as much as possible, but some people just don't want to make this pregnancy easier for me. I'm getting tired really, and 16weeks of waiting before my due date comes is like waiting for forever. I want to get over with this pregnancy soon. If my complication persists, then God be with me if what's His will. I just pray that I'll deliver the baby safely because "he" deserves to live. As for myself, I already made sure that all my insurances are ready in case something bad happens.

This another episode of bleeding is scaring me, but I'm taking it as it is. If the ultrasound tomorrow shows a really bad result, then I'll just have to deal with it.

Working My Ass Off for WHAT?

2009-07-06T12:59:00.004+08:00

Ever since I've been in this financial mess, I've been working my ass off day and night just to get out of it and bring everything back to normal. A full-time employee, a freelancer on the side, a mom after the 8-hour job, and a preggy one who's on her 24th week. I'm feeling very tired working my ass off, for WHAT? Just to find out something which almost tear my heart into pieces a while ago. Betrayal! Lies!

I don't want to give up, but sometimes when I think that for three years now, I get the same betrayal, I ask myself, "Is it really worth holding on?" It's always about the same "TRUST" issue that we have, and it's so da*n tiring. How I wish I'm that naive and insensitive, how I wish I'm not as smart as I am so I won't find out about this betrayal. Can I just be one dumb person? Maybe that way, life won't be too complicated for me.

I'm really tired working my ass off, for WHAT? For nothing in the end? For losing? For not being treated right? I just want a quiet family life, that's all. But why this betrayal? Why this?

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Remembering Michael Jackson

2009-07-05T15:33:00.004+08:00

It's been a week since Michael Jackson's death, but I still keep seeing more tributes for him via the TV and Internet. Since last week, I tried to avoid watching news about his death, much more to go over YouTube and watch his MTVs. Not because I'm not interested, but because at one point in my life, I became his fan and watching his recorded performance will affect me somehow. I even remembered how we presented a dance number with his song "Black or White" during our recognition day in Grade 5. And bought a CD of one of his concerts way back in 2003.

However, in spite of my attempts to avoid watching his performances again, I was not able to stop myself from seeing this last rehearsal he made for his "This Is It" concert tour. Seeing him still so strong days before his parting and performing one of my favorite songs, "They Don't Care About Us", I couldn't help but feel really sad and affected of his sudden death. I loved his songs so much, it all started when I saw him perform as part of the Jackson 5. And up to now, I can't deny the fact that his songs still move me somehow.

So, here let me share to you that YouTube video of his last rehearsal.

Daddy And I Share This InTheRooms Info

2009-07-04T10:57:00.002+08:00

The other day, I scolded Daddy for smoking in front of the webcam. As much as possible, I don't want the kids to see him smoking because I don't want them to be doing the same thing when they grow older. Actually, I do smoke as well, but I'm not the chain smoker type. And I never tried narcotics of any sort. I was a rebellious teen way back in 1995 when my mom died, but I made a promise to myself never to try drugs, gambling, and other forms of addiction.

I succeeded in fulfilling my promise, however, there are a few people out there who did not make it, thus they ended up hooked in various kinds of addiction like the ones I mentioned above. But some of them already seek help and are now on their way to recovery. Recovering from addiction could be a difficult process. Good thing there's a site like InTheRooms, an online global community created solely for those who are seeking help to fully recover. If you are on your road to recovery, this is a great site for you as you can find people who are also in a struggle to understand what they are really going through. Here, you can freely share your past without the fear of rejection or judgment of any kind. And here, you'll also realize that you're not alone on the process.

Daddy and I may not be in the same boat as those people seeking recovery, but we're both glad to share this info about InTheRooms Meetings Database, a Wiki which can help them manage the most accurate meeting database online. If they think revisions should be made in the database, this Wiki will allow them to, which of course for review and approval of the moderators. This step enables them to make the community to be the best so it won't be difficult for the others to find a meeting in their area.

Friendship Chain

2009-07-04T08:06:00.003+08:00

When I started blogging a couple of years back, I never really thought that I'd meet a lot of interesting people, moms and non-moms alike, through this medium. It's just amazing how this little space I got from the web allows me to develop friendship with people from all walks of life, without even the need to meet them in person. So, today, I want to spread this friendship chain to those whom I've met via the net, and to those who are already my friends way back. But before I do, I want to say thank you to the fellow mommy blogger who passed this chain to me, Mommy Enchie of Sweet Nothings. An awesome mom, a loving wife, and an amazing blogger - yes that's how she is! I love reading her posts, so I drop by her blog regularly. Feel free to check her site, click here.

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This is the easy way and the fastest way to :

1. Make your Authority Technorati explode.

2. Increase your Google Page Rank.

3. Get more traffic to your blog.

4. Makes more new friends.

Rules :

1. Start copy from “Begin Copy” until “End Copy” to your blog.

2. Put your own blog name and link.

3. Tag your friends as much as you can.

1.Picturing of Life 2. Juliana’s Site 3. Hazel-My Life, My Hope, My Future.4. Jeanne-The Callalily Space5.My Family is my Life 6. The Simple Life of a Baghag 7. On A Wonderful Day Like Today 8. House Everything 9. The Creativity in Me 10. Travel and Photography 11. Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow 12. You Are My Sunshine 13.Song to Remember 14. Super Blog 15. Philiippine Tv Marathon 16.Simply Blue 17. Breaking the Boundaries 18. Top Five 19. A Simple Life 20. Simple Happy Life 21. A Great Pleasure 22. Glossa~licious 23. Time Goes By 24. Sweet Nothings 25. The Baby in Between 26. You're Next!

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Now, I'm passing this Friendship Chain to my blogging friends, Nays, Lyn, Maidz, Cardz, Wats, Wends, Raissa, Glady, Jhelea, Melanie, and Yona.

Endurance Athlete Survey 2

2009-07-03T23:51:00.002+08:00

It's almost 12midnight now; my sleep was interrupted a couple of minutes back by some YM messages. And since I couldn't sleep anymore, I decided to check my email and saw this endurance athlete survey. It's the second, actually. And as I've mentioned before, I really envy those who are into endurance event because of their self-discipline. Way back in 1999, I used to try long distance running, but h*ck I really couldn't go any further than 1 kilometer. Perhaps, if I had some kind of training, I would endure as well.

Anyway, here's the survey. Check it out!

Mommy Moments - Encounter with Animals

2009-07-03T08:53:00.009+08:00

Wow, I can't believe it's Friday once again. The week seemed to pass so quickly. And tomorrow, I'm off to another long weekend. Weeee! :D

But for now, let me share to you my photos for this Friday's Mommy Moments theme - encounter with animals or pets. And since I wasn't able to find any photo of Baby Gab with pets or animals around, I decided to put mine.

(Me and the tarsier - during our Bohol trip last March 2008)

(Picture picture with Prony the Python..I'm scared!!)

(Me and the backpack?? Nah, it's a lemur!)

(Horseback riding time! As if. Just for the sake of pics actually.)

(Our pet Doglas. LOL. In our dreams. It's the famous St. Bernard from Mines View, Baguio)

Nothing much for me to share. Those encounters that I have were mostly from our trips in Bohol and Baguio. We haven't really spent a day in a zoo or any place with lots of pets and animals. Anyway, when Daddy comes back here, I'll make sure Baby Gaby will have her first encounters with animals.

Gerby's Humble Beginnings

2009-07-02T20:43:00.003+08:00

Finally, I was able to accomplish today one of my plans since February, and that is to create a new blog for our new baby who is due on October 22nd. Although we don't know yet what the baby's gender is, Daddy and I already came up with a name. A name which can be applicable to both baby boy or baby girl. It's a simple combination of our names - Gerald, Phoebe, and Gaby. So let me introduce to you our new baby - BABY GERBY.

Gerby's Humble Beginnings will be the online journal of our new bundle of joy. Since Gaby already has this one, we decided to give Gerby "his" own place on the web. (LOL! :D Isn't it obvious that I'm really hoping for a baby boy this time?) As of now, I only used the typical dots layout from Blogger. But once I find more time to tweak it, I'll choose a customized one. For now, the dots layout will do since I'll be focusing on its content first.

So that's it! Let's witness how this little one makes "his" journey to life - "his" humble beginnings!

The Love Song Survey

2009-07-01T20:13:00.003+08:00

Do you like listening to love songs? I do, but not the classical ones. I prefer the R&B, Rap/Hip Hop thing. Actually when I played that love song from Frank Sinatra a while ago and Daddy overheard it via Skype call, he reacted negatively. It's like he said, "What the h*ck was that?" LOL. :D

Anyway, feel free to share your views on this love song survey.

Top Entrecard Droppers for June

2009-07-01T10:00:00.000+08:00

Since it's the first day of the month again, allow me to say thank you to those who regularly visit and drop their entrecards in this family blog. You just don't know how much it means to me guys that you take the time to drop by here. Again, thank you very much!

So, here's The Baby in Between's Top Entrecard Droppers for June:

Online Marketing
my review
Zero
AUGUSTINIANS
Hip to be Mom
My Loonyverse
Dashing Smiles
Confessions of a Psychotic Housewife
Mary Anne's Musing
A lil Enchanted

Suddenly Missed Daddy

2009-07-01T07:41:00.003+08:00

The faint cry of the baby in between asking for "dede" (milk) woke me up around 2AM this morning. After giving her one, I tried to get back to sleep but failed. So, what I did was I checked my laptop to see if Daddy was still sleeping. (Yeah, we leave our webcams open as we sleep, so it's as if Daddy is just here beside us.) Indeed, he was and even if I wanted to wake up him up, just like what I did when he was here, I chose not to. He has to go to work in the morning, so it's better not to bother him.

But after looking at Daddy in webcam, I suddenly missed him so much that I couldn't help but wish he's really beside me. It's been three months since he left, and even if we see and chat everyday thru Skype, still it's very much different when he's here. I miss Daddy's hugs, kisses, jokes, and even his irritating ways and remarks. I thought I'll get used to not being with him in just months time. But sadly, no.

Oh I miss you so much Dad!

Amazing MP3 Deal of the Day

2009-06-30T20:50:00.000+08:00

I love listening to music. Whenever I travel to and from the office, I always play my favorite MP3s on my PSP. These songs are great distractions for me not to notice the long distance travel that I do everyday. My favorite genre: R&B. Daddy hardly appreciates my favorite type of music, so he settles on his own which is alternative.

Daddy and I are really opposite when it comes to music. However, in spite of such differences, we manage to listen to each other's favorite type when our moods are up to it. Same is also true whenever I hear some patriotic songs being played by my colleagues. Although I'm not very much into such type of music, I don't really mind listening to them from time to time.

And since the 4th of July is just around the corner, for sure patriotic songs will be aired everywhere. If you are one of those who just love to listen to these songs, why don't you take advantage of this amazing MP3 deal of the day ? That's right! You get to enjoy this A Salute to America album at an amazingly low price of $1.99. See, great savings!

The digital album A Salute to America is composed of 30 songs which is originally priced at $9.49. But since there's a reason to celebrate the 4th of July, it will be available for only $1.99 on July 3. Take note: it's a one-day deal, so don't miss it! Now, let me go back to listening to my R&B Mp3s.

A Mom's Struggle

2009-06-30T17:59:00.000+08:00

The weekend is over once again, but my struggle as a mom is far from over. Why? Because I'm really having a hard time disciplining my two girls, especially the baby in between. Now, I'm starting to regret the fact that I'm a full-time working mom instead of a stay-at-home working one.

Ever since I gave birth to Baby Gaby last Nov of 2007, I never really got a chance to take care of her for a longer period. The longest so far was when I was on 1 1/2 month maternity leave, that was when she was still weeks to a month old. But after that, she spends more time with her nanny than me.

Now, why do I find parenting a struggle? It's simply because I can't get her to obey and behave whenever she sees her nanny around. Imagine, when she wants something, and she doesn't get it, she rolls over the floor and cries so loud. As much as possible, I don't want to spank her because she's still very small, but what can a poor Mommy do to change her misbehavior.

I really don't know what to do now to change the baby in between's attitude. Actually, I've already told Daddy about this problem, and all he said was, I should not stop trying to make sure she'll grow as a well-behaved girl. But how can I if I'm all alone to do the parenting stuff? And now I'm starting to ask, are the good jobs we have worth it?

Image Source: www.faithandfamilylive.com

I Got an Award

2009-06-30T15:30:00.003+08:00

I was so happy when I read the comment left by Mommy Mye of Blog Appetite in one of my posts. Yes, she gave me an award! The Creative Mommy Blogger Award! "Thanks a lot Mommy Mye for this. I do appreciate it very much. :)"

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Here are the simple rules:

Take your award and put the logo on your post.

Link the person who awarded you. Remember each recipient of the award should acknowledge the person who honored them and go to Mom’s Special Diary to copy and paste the award.

Put your own blog title and link.

Nominate at least five deserving moms.

1. Mom’s Special Diary 2. The Mommy Journey. 3. Niko’s Blog 4. Pensive Thoughts 5. Random WAHM Thoughts. 6. Blog Appetite. 7. The Baby in Between

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Now, let me pass this award to the following Mommy bloggers who truly deserve to have an award like this: Ate Carlota whom I'll be forever thankful for giving me this layout, Mommy Rose, Mommy Beth, Mommy Vannie, and Mommy Twinx.

Pink Nap Mat for Baby Gaby

2009-06-29T20:38:00.001+08:00

If I get a new book for Ate Yana, I should get something for the baby in between too. Why? Because I'm pretty sure she won't like seeing her Ate having something new, while she doesn't have any. So, I'm thinking about getting this pink nap mat for her. Since the weather is so hot lately, she'll find this very comfortable to sleep on unlike on the mattress we're using now. And the pink color, I'm sure she'll love it.

Actually before, I was thinking about giving her one of those toddler backpacks or kids backpacks. But I changed my mind after seeing how lovely this pink nap mat is. And so, it's final.

Now, if your toddler happens to be celebrating his/her birthday soon and you're still looking for a nice gift, why not get one of these nap mats? More colors are available aside from pink. You can choose from blue, brown, purple, maroon, and green. For sure, your toddler will also love it. As for Baby Gaby, I'll stick with pink.

How The Baby in Between Sleeps...Then and Now

2009-06-29T10:31:00.005+08:00

I was busy updating my Phoebz Place blog a while ago, when the nanny told me that Baby Gaby had already fallen asleep. I was surprised to see that she's already sleeping because all the time I thought she was simply watching cartoon. Here's how she sleeps now:

I couldn't help but laugh when I saw her in that sleeping position. See, she didn't even bother about the pillows she lied on, which make her position really uncomfortable to look at. I just moved her after taking this pic so she'll have a longer sleeping time. We're off to the grocery store this afternoon, so she has to sleep now or else, she'll be sleeping while we're buying stuff.

The baby in between is really growing so fast. I can still imagine her infant days when she used to sleep soundly and didn't move that much while sleeping. Oh, how I miss how she sleeps then...

(Baby Gaby when she's 3weeks old)

Chin and the Magic Stones: A New Book for Ate Yana

2009-06-28T20:58:00.002+08:00

My 5-year old girl is already fond of reading as early as now. At night, whenever I come home from work, she would ask me, "Mommy, did you buy a new book for me?" My reply is always a no, because with my busy schedule, I hardly find time to drop by at the mall, much more at a bookstore.

I know, I should not make my busy schedule as an excuse not to buy Ate Yana a new book. Especially with that eagerness to read, I should be the one to encourage her more in order to enhance her reading skills. I was thinking, what if I just make an order online for this must-read book for kids entitled Chin and the Magic Stones? I've recently checked www.chinmagic.com and read quite a number of positive reviews about it. I got curious in an instant and so I'm thinking of getting one for my little girl.

Although the book was intended mainly for kids aged 7 to 11 years old, I know Ate Yana will be able to appreciate it and learn a good deal from it since she's really fond of reading adventure books. Based from the summary I read, the story does not only impart the funtale adventure of a 10-year old kid but also carries a positive message about the importance of having self-confidence and keeping a positive atittude at all times.

As of now, I haven't told my little girl about my plan of getting this book because I don't want to disappoint her in case I won't be able to get one. I'm sure, other moms out there are also thinking of getting one for their kids. Who wouldn't? It's summer time and there's no better way of letting the kids spend it than by summer reading.

The Baby in Between Plays the Nintendo Wii and the PSP

2009-06-28T17:30:00.002+08:00

It's almost the end of the day again, and since Daddy did not allow us to attend the USAP Family Day at the Ultra, I thought of ways to keep the baby in between busy so she won't bother me doing freelance stuff. And here's what she did:

( Can you guess what this is? )

( There goes the baby in between playing Nintendo Wii tennis...And.. )

( Shoo Mom! Don't bother me! I'm busy playing the PSP! )

Yes, the techie in Dad has now been passed on to the baby in between. If Dad was the one playing these gadgets when he was here, now it's her little girl's turn. Actually, she's not yet good at playing those gadgets, but in time I'm sure she'll be so good at them that she won't let her Dad win against her. Go Gab! Weeee... :D

I wonder how Daddy will react if he sees these photos. Geez, I hope he won't react negatively because he's always opposed to the idea of letting the little one play those gadgets at this age. Not because she's too young to be techie, but too young to handle them with care. In that aspect, "I agree with you, Dad!"

A Dream Wedding in Maui

2009-06-28T08:53:00.000+08:00

Yesterday, while on my way home, I couldn't help but look at the promise ring I'm wearing at my right hand's ring finger. Daddy and I both wear one, with our names engraved in it. It symbolizes our love for each other, with a promise that even without marriage we'll stick with each other through thick and thin.

But in spite of this promise, I sometimes find myself wishing that we're a married couple already. I know, for now, that would be impossible. But for sure, in time, it will happen and when that time comes, I'll make sure it will be a grand celebration, like a dream wedding in Maui.

Daddy and I love traveling, and so we thought that having our wedding in a Maui Resort would be a dream come true. Hawaii is famous for its destination weddings, just like the ones held in Ka'anapali Resort in Maui. With its lovely oceanfront garden, who would not want to experience exchanging vows in this lovely place? Plus, with their great romance package which includes ocean front accommodations, daily breakfast, assistance with wedding license, wedding coordination, and others, everything is made so convenient for the would-be couple. It's just like having a vacation and a grand event in one.

Oh, how I wish Daddy and I can get married really soon. And what a great bonus it would be if we can really do it in Maui Resort. Wishing!

No Family Day for Mommy and Baby Gaby

2009-06-28T07:50:00.002+08:00

Our office organized a Family Day today to be held at Ultra PSC in Pasig. It will be held together with the closing of our sportsfest. It'll be lots of fun, for sure. The organizing committee prepared games, booths, prizes, foods, inflatables for kids, etc.

I would love to bring the two kids along, especially Baby Gaby, because ever since we transferred here in our new home, they never get a chance to be in malls or anywhere else except the grocery store. They will love the inflatables and foods, I'm sure. However, when I told Daddy about it, outright he said a big NO. The reason: he doesn't want the kids to travel from here to Pasig and to be in crowded places. Social distancing, in short, since the A(H1N1) virus is still widely spreading.

So there. No family day for me and Baby Gaby. I'll just have to think of ways now to make her Sunday as enjoyable as possible.

One Word Tag

2009-06-27T18:44:00.000+08:00

I was tagged by a fellow mommy blogger, Mommy Tetcha of Pensive Thoughts. Thanks a lot for this Mommy!

So, how will the tag go? USING ONLY ONE WORD! It’s not as easy as you might think! Copy and change the answers to suit you and pass it on. It’s really hard to use only one-word answers. Be sure to tag the person who sent it to you!

1. Where is your cell phone? Bag
2. Your hair? Black
3. Your mother? Gone
4. Your father? Away
5. Your favorite food? Chicken
6. Your dream last night? Sad
7. Your favorite drink? Chocolate
8. Your dream/goal? Travel
9. What room you are in? Office
10. Your hobby? Blogging
11. Your fear? Spiders
12. Where do you want to be in 6 years? Canada
13. Where were you last night? Home
14. Something that you aren’t? Insensitive
15. Muffins? Corn
16. Wish list item? Car
17. Where you grew up? Bicol
18. Last thing you did? Read
19. What are you wearing? Shirt
20. Your TV? Sony
21. Your pets? None
22. Friends? Many
23. Your life? Good
24. Your mood? Relaxed
25. Missing someone? Daddy
26. Car? Soon
27. Something you’re not wearing? Make-up
28. Your favorite store? Ukay-Ukay :D
29. Your favorite color? Blue
30. When is the last time you laughed? Yesterday
31. Last time you cried? Saturday
32. Who will resend this? Me
33. One place that I go to over and over? Grocery
34. One person who emails me regularly? Precy
35. My favorite place to eat? Kenny's

Whew, it wasn't easy really! Like on the dream/goal thing, I wanted to write work abroad, but then since it's one word tag, I just said Travel and on the fave place to eat, instead of Kenny Roger's, I simply put Kenny's *wink* :D

Now, I'm tagging the following people: Jhelea, Nays, Lyn, Glady, Lisa, Rose, and Wats.

To Bank or Not to Bank?

2009-06-27T10:11:00.002+08:00

I am now 23 weeks pregnant, but still unsure as to how I'll go about so many things like the hospital where I’ll give birth, what color to choose for my baby’s stuffs – baby blue, baby pink, or light yellow, and what name to give. The former will be easier to decide on, but the next two will be a bit harder because I need to go through an ultrasound first to determine baby’s gender. But aside from these three, there’s another thing that I’m really looking deeper recently – and that is storing my baby’s cord blood. I keep asking myself, “To bank or not to bank?”

It is still 17 weeks away before I give birth, but as early as now, I’m really thinking hard whether it’s a good idea to bank my baby’s cord blood or not. Based on my research, storing the baby’s umbilical cord is an investment in the future health of my family since stem cells can already be used in different kinds of treatments. I know, one day, my family can benefit from this stem cell storage, but I’m still seriously considering the expenses I’ll have to make for the process shortly after I give birth.

As I’ve mentioned in one of my posts here, I’m currently facing slight money problems lately. So, as much as possible, before I go into storing my baby’s cord blood, I must see to it that the expenses for it won’t go beyond my budget. Although Cryo-Cell is giving away a special discount of up to $725 for expectant families beginning today until June 28, 2009 by simply using the HOT promotional code, I still have to consult Daddy about this since he’s our family’s financial officer. LOL.

Anyway, if you happen to come across this blog and is an expectant mom like me who is considering banking baby’s cord blood, why don’t you check out this Cryo-Cell’s discount? You get to save a lot from this limited offer, so grab it now!

Mommy Moments - School Days

2009-06-26T20:25:00.006+08:00

Whew, I thought I lost these pics of Ate Yana's school days! My Mac was reformatted 2 weeks ago, and so all the pics I saved here were lost. Good thing, I did not delete these pics in my USB, or else...

Okay, so since the baby in between does not go to school yet, I hope these pics of Ate Yana's school days will suffice. So here's my entry for today's Mommy Moments.

These pics were taken during Yana's graduation in kinder last April 1st. Guess what, she received the 1st honor in her class. Here's one proud momma talking. Lol. :D

Check out more of Mommy Moments. See you again next Friday!

Endurance Athlete Survey

2009-06-26T17:52:00.000+08:00

Whenever I see people joining marathon, I can't help but envy their endurance. I ask myself, "How can they endure that long distance running without losing their breath?" Because for me, a few kilometers of running, let's say around 1.5 km, consumes all my energy. I end up so tired after.

How about you? Are you up to be an endurance athlete? Why don't you participate in this survey?

I Wonder Why

2009-06-26T15:44:00.002+08:00

...this family blog was distorted when I opened it this morning. There was no header, no images in the layout, and hey no layout in general - only content and widgets. I thought it was because of our Barracuda filter here in our office network. But after opening my friends' blogs, I realized that there was really something wrong with my blog and not the network. Then I remembered one message from Ate Carlota, author of Dashing Smiles and the one who gave me this layout, that her photobucket will expire this June. I thought maybe that was the problem, and so I emailed her immediately and left her a message at her tagboard.

While waiting for Ate Carlota's reply, I kept wondering why my blog became distorted so suddenly. Last night, it was still ok. I didn't know anything about the layout or fixing it, so I was really worried that there would be no choice left for me but to switch back to my old blogger layout. Good thing, after an hour or so, Ate Carlota replied and helped me fixed the problem. The culprit: The PayingPost Code. Again, I wonder why that code suddenly has a virus on it - the bloodhound.ex. Do you have any idea?

But anyway, I'm really glad that Ate Carlota fixed the problem for me in a jiffy. Thanks Ate! So, what's next in my to-do list? To find a photo for this week's Mommy Moments. Hmmm...The baby in between is not yet in school, but her Ate Yana is. So, ok let me find one of Ate Yana's school days photos.

Two Birthdays, Same Treat

2009-06-25T13:35:00.007+08:00

The month of June has been a festive month for us. It's the birthday month of our two good friends, Gladz and Rais. Although they both celebrated their birthdays on a Monday, which is a rest day for us, they didn't forget to give us a treat: Glady's birthday treat was last June 17, Wednesday, while Rais' was just a while ago. We had a hearty lunch at Red Ribbon Shaw.

"Yeah, two birthdays, same treat at Red Ribbon. Thanks Glad and Rais! 'Til next year! LOL :D"

Belated Happy Birthday!!!

Gladz and Rais (The Birthday Girls!)

Just When I Needed You Most

2009-06-24T15:32:00.004+08:00

Just like the lyrics of a song, now I can't help but say the exact line, "Just when I needed you the most". But I'm not ranting here about Daddy or anyone, it's about Yahoo Mail. LOL. See this screenshot:

Yes, it's really wrong timing that Yahoo's system is down when I needed it the most. I stored some of the information I researched from the net in my Yahoo Mail notepad last night. And now that I'm about to copy paste them in a Microsoft Word file, I can't access the system. "Really bad Yahoo. I'm in a rush to finish my freelance articles, but how can I now that I can't access you."

Oh, what else can I do? I can't wait for you forever. So, I might as well re-research again. LOL. Good luck to me and my deadline!

No Daycare School for Ate Yana

2009-06-23T07:47:00.000+08:00

Ate Yana, the baby in between's bigger sister, is not going to school today. Not because she doesn't want to, but because daycare school classes were suspended since yesterday. The reason: 20 pupils were experiencing fever in one section alone. Nothing is confirmed yet whether it's A(H1N1) that's causing those kids to have fever, but as a precautionary measure, classes were suspended to prevent the other kids from getting fever as well, including our Ate Yana.

The increasing number of A(H1N1) cases here in our country are really so alarming. And we don't exactly know who have the virus, so we're all helpless on that part. Who knows, the person we're talking to now is already a A(H1N1) flu virus carrier without him/her knowing as well. So, there's not much that we can do, but to keep our immunity strong by taking vitamins and to observe proper hygiene, like what we all do at home.

I just hope the kids at Ate Yana's daycare school are just experiencing ordinary fever, and not the one brought by A(H1N1). School will resume tomorrow, and the little girl just can't wait because she loves going to school. Baby Gaby loves it as well because she gets to joy ride when sending and fetching her Ate to and from school.

The Baby in Between Offline for 24 Hours

2009-06-22T18:58:00.002+08:00

Page Load Error...That was the last words I've seen on my laptop screen yesterday at around 3pm. I thought it was just a short Internet disconnection, but whew, it lasted for over 24 hours. I kept thinking what happened to Globe broadband, since all my neighbors who also subscribed through that ISP, including the Internet cafe nearby, were also Internet-less. But until now, we're all clueless.

Anyway, I'm so glad that The Baby in Between is back online now. We may have missed greeting Daddy a Happy Fathers' Day yesterday through Skype's video chat, but I managed to leave a post here greeting Daddy. I just hope he remembered checking this family blog before going to bed last night.

Happy Father's Day, DADDY!!!

2009-06-21T15:32:00.004+08:00

Since today is Father's Day, this day is for you, Daddy. You may be so far away from me and the baby in between, but you're always close to our hearts. Here's our simple Father's Day greetings to you. Hope you like it! We love you so much!!!

Play Multiplayer Games to Celebrate Fathers' Day

2009-06-21T00:02:00.000+08:00

Do you think this will work? Daddy and I used to play multiplayer games like billiards together; but, of course, with me losing every time. So, I'm thinking, will Daddy love the idea of us playing online billiards in a while to celebrate Fathers' Day? He's still there in South Korea so the only chance we've got to spend this special day is via the Internet.

I already have a multiplayer game site in mind. It's very user-friendly and really easy to navigate. Actually, Daddy and I can compete with other players if we want to. And you know what's good about this site, it's FREE to join, so nothing to worry about spending on this special day.

So, what do you think? Will Daddy like it?

Staying Up Late on a Saturday Night

2009-06-20T23:25:00.002+08:00

The baby in between is already fast asleep beside me. But the hardworking mom is still here in front of the laptop making this post. No need for me to worry though, because staying up late on a Saturday night is A-OK for it's a weekend for me.

So, what's keeping me up this late? Actually, I'm thinking about what kind of Father's Day post I'll make for Daddy tomorrow. Last year, I surprised him with this A Father's Day Tribute post. He loved it very much, especially that slideshow I made of his childhood and adolescence years photos. Hmmm..For this year, what could possibly surprise him? I'm running out of ideas already. Suggestions, anyone? Something unique, something new!